All of us ladies know that one of the most satisfying feelings is to walk around in a guys clothing, especially if it is a few sizes too big. There is something just so comforting about it. Plus, it’s a little exhilarating, wearing something you don’t own. Whether it’s borrowing a hoodie when you’re cold, or if you’re anything like me, when you spill coffee or spaghetti sauce all over your shirt, you grab something out of your boyfriend’s closet and feel content because it smells like him. It’s a comforting action.
All women I know love being able to do this, and I think it all started with the simple action of a varsity sports player giving his girlfriend his Letterman jacket to symbolize they were going steady. Oh my, how it has changed. The real question after all these years is what do guys think about girls stealing and wearing their clothing. So I asked my closest guy friends to answer a series of questions anonymously to see what their take on all of this was.
What do you think when a girl steals your clothing?
“Definitely depends on the girl. If it’s a stranger, I guess I got robbed and should curl up in a fetal position.”
“It’s honestly just really cute.”
“I think that when a girl steals your clothing it is a sign of endearment. They want a token to remember you by. But when they keep stealing them it could get annoying.”
“Cute, but she better have a plan to give it back.”
“It’s kind of a turn on seeing a girl steal my clothes because it shows me that she is comfortable around me.”
“For me, it’s no problem. I’m not super attached to my clothes and it’s cute when you see how small your girlfriend looks in your sweaters.”
What item of clothing in particular do you love to see a girl wearing that is yours?
“My hoodies.”
“If it’s got my name on it I love her wearing it because it might be her name later on.”
“Long T-shirts that she uses as night gowns haha.”
“Uh, probably like my hoodie or a hat. It’s playful when she takes my hat and tries to wear it but it’s too big.”
“Hoodie and/or sweatpants. It’s cute to see your woman in an oversized hoodie. Comfort over style any day.”
“I would love to see a girl wear my MisterWives sweater because it’s my favorite band and it will be big on a girl who looks cute.”
“Anything on the upper body is usually cute. :-)”
Any item that you are against them stealing? Do you have any pet peeves over any particular item?
“I feel like her taking my underwear would be weird…”
“My work boots. Your dunkin donuts iced coffee doesn’t pay for itself you freeloader.”
“I’m pretty big on sharing so nah.”
“Sweatpants.”
“Nothing in particular but she always manages to take things that I especially like. Never the things I don’t care about.”
“My underwear, that’s just gross. Happened to me once during a hookup and it was freaky.”
“My Borat style swimsuit. Don’t touch the suit guuuuurllll!”
Any criteria for letting a girl wear/borrow your clothing?
“She has to return them! Yeah, returning is a must, please don’t wear my favorite of anything without asking and that’s it really.”
“There are times that are rare that I don’t get me clothes back but they mostly get returned back so I have no problem with doing so.”
“No one but my girlfriend.”
“If I’m seeing this girl again she can always have something.”
“Ask kindly. I’ll definitely let you use it.”
“If I wear it a lot then don’t take it.”
“A girlfriend can use my clothes with no obligation to return.”
“Ermmm just girlfriend. I’m pretty sure I’m still out a sweatshirt and some flannels from letting a random girl borrow them…like a friend sure because you’ll see them again and they’re good for it. But one night stand? Man, clothes are expensive.”
“Depending on who the girl is, I will allow a friend to wear something of mine. I would let a girl wear or borrow some clothes if we are in a relationship, as well as letting a girl who I’ve had a one night stand with just so they will have something comfortable to wear.”
“It’s fine unless I want to wear that article of clothing.”
“I want it back. I don’t care if you borrow it but if I bought it, I want it back.”
So the results are in ladies, 9 times out of 10 your man won’t mind if you’re in a serious relationship, just ask first. And don’t make a move for his underwear, that is sacred ground to them it seems. Also, steer clear of his favorite items! Friendships seem to also be questionable territory, but if you’re a one night stand, only take the item if you know you will never seem them again. Or else risk the chance of developing bad blood. That’s up to you, but may the odds be ever in your favor and good luck with your small-scale thievery. 😉
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It depends on what she stealing for herself or for ex lover or just a friend… I had a girl give so much of my clothes away I started seeing peoples in my neighborhood wearing my clothes so if she win wearing them I’ll be concerned….
But what if we’re just friends? And I didn’t steal it from him, I asked him if I could keep them and he was like, “Sure.”
no, she can’t wear my clothes, I may offer her my jacket if she’s cold, but I’m taking it back once we are somewhere warm.
Wow, whoever wrote this article is a Vapid Cunt. Good luck with your thievery? Hope you get fucking jumped on the street when you’re out on a night you vile shit. Women like you are making horrendous articles like this which are clearly heavily biased. Most guys don’t want you touching their shit, it’s fucking annoying. If you do it to the wrong guy, expect to get a black eye or lose a few teeth. Don’t touch or steal shit, and honestly if you are taking shit from people you are having one night stands with, I hope you get drugged and raped to death the next time you try to steal from someone on a one night stand. Kleptomanic bitch.
I mean, he/she had a point, but just said it in a bad way
Wow. You are a total psychopath
Whoever the fuck decides to date you, bless his/her heart.
Because damn, wtf. You gotta be mentally unstable, was there really any need to be so damn rude, like damn, seriously, I had no idea men were so pissy with their girlfriends over small crap like this, dude, if she does this she might be feeling lonely asf at night and just needs a fucking reminder. I am so damn lucky my man isn’t a total d*ck head
And besides, usually if they have common sense they only take one thing. That’s what i did. You unholy son of a b*tch
yikes chill bro its just an article made for satire purposes
If this isn’t satire, girls stealing hoodies and clothes is just flat out annoying. Not sure how to tell my gf to nicely fuck off because there’s NO FUCKING POINT. Yes I will give it to her if she’s cold no doubt, but why tf does she just “need” my sweatshirts. Her keeping a sweatshirt of mine is just super meaningless act of “cuteness”. It ain’t cute. It’s her high school rom com fairytale but it doesn’t at all, I mean AT ALL measure how much you like someone.
That would be a warm feeling. Lovely post.
nah, id let my girl wear anything of mine. literally. i love her so much and i actually do think its kinda hot. when i get it back, i cant help but think about her wearing it.
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Nothing in particular but she always manages to take things that I especially like. Never the things I don’t care about
I love this topic! It’s funny how stealing clothes can feel like a compliment but also drive guys crazy. It’s interesting to hear different perspectives on it. Some guys seem to find it cute, while others are totally against it. What do you all think? Is it playful or just plain annoying?
I love how this post captures the mixed feelings guys have about girls borrowing their clothes! It’s funny because on one hand, it can be super annoying, but on the other, it’s kind of flattering to see someone rock your style. Plus, it leads to some cute moments! What do you all think—should we just accept it or set some boundaries?
I think it’s hilarious when girls steal guys’ clothes! It’s like a compliment and a little bit of a power move. Plus, wearing oversized hoodies is the best! It blurs the lines a bit, and honestly, who doesn’t love a comfy fit?
This post is hilarious! I love how you guys shared your perspectives. It’s funny how something as simple as borrowing clothes can lead to such different reactions. I guess it just shows how much we actually value our personal style!
This post totally resonates with me! I never realized how often my clothes would go missing until I started dating. It’s funny at first, but then you really start to miss that favorite hoodie! I guess it’s one of those cute quirks of relationships, but communication about wardrobe stealing is definitely key!
I always find it funny how guys act like their clothes are off-limits! I mean, if she looks good in it and they’re just borrowing, what’s the harm? It’s not like I’m going to keep the hoodie forever! Plus, stealing their clothes usually leads to some cute moments. Love the relationship dynamics that come with sharing wardrobe!
I loved this post! It’s so interesting to hear guys’ perspectives on something as simple as clothes. I never realized how much it can represent trust and comfort in relationships. Plus, I can totally relate to borrowing a shirt from my boyfriend—it just feels cozy! What do you think about setting some boundaries though?
I found this post really relatable! It’s funny how something as simple as borrowing clothes can lead to such strong opinions. I think it’s all about communication—if both sides are cool with it, then go for it! But it’s definitely annoying when a favorite piece goes “missing.” What do you all think?
I found this post really relatable! It’s funny how clothes sometimes become a shared space in relationships. I get both sides—it’s cute to borrow, but it can be annoying when you can’t find your favorite hoodie! Would love to hear more thoughts from other guys on this!
I found this post super relatable! It’s funny how something as simple as borrowing clothes can lead to such mixed feelings. I get the whole “it’s just clothes” mindset, but I also think it’s about respecting personal space and belongings. What do you guys think?
I love this post! It’s so relatable how guys feel about their clothes disappearing. It’s all fun and games until you realize your favorite hoodie is now her go-to. It’s all about sharing, but maybe we need a “clothes exchange” system in place! What do you all think?
I totally relate to this! It’s both annoying and kind of flattering when a girl “borrows” my clothes. It makes me think she likes my style, but I definitely wish she’d ask first!
I loved this post! It’s so interesting to hear guys’ perspectives on this topic. I think it’s hilarious when girls borrow their boyfriends’ clothes, but I’ve also seen it lead to some playful arguments. It makes me wonder if there’s a deeper reason for it—maybe it’s about feeling closer to someone? What do you all think?
It’s always interesting to see how different guys feel about this! Personally, I think it can be fun when my girlfriend borrows my clothes, but it definitely depends on the piece. I draw the line at my favorite hoodie though! What do other guys think?
I love this topic! It’s so interesting to see the different perspectives guys have on this. Personally, I think it can be cute when a girl wears my clothes, but it definitely depends on the situation. I’d love to hear more stories about funny or awkward moments that come from clothes swapping!
I love this post! It’s funny how stealing clothes can be such a mix of annoyance and sweetness. I guess it shows how close you are with someone when they feel comfortable enough to borrow your stuff. But guys, you also gotta admit, sometimes it’s just hard to keep track of your favorite shirt when it’s “borrowed” all the time!
I love this discussion! It’s so true that borrowing clothes can be a fun way to share style, but it’s a fine line between borrowing and just taking. Communication is key! Plus, it’s always great to get a guy’s perspective on this—it opens up a whole new angle on fashion and relationships. Would love to hear more stories!
Loved this post! It’s so true that there’s a fine line between sharing clothes and just plain stealing. I think communication is key—if both people are on the same page about sharing, it can be fun. But when it feels one-sided, it can definitely lead to some frustration. What do you all think about setting some ground rules?
I totally relate to this! It’s funny how stealing clothes can be a mix of annoyance and flattery. I love when my girlfriend borrows my hoodie; it makes me feel like she wants a piece of my style. But at the same time, I do wish I could keep my favorites to myself sometimes!
I found this post hilarious! It’s so true how much we girls love “borrowing” our guy’s hoodies. They always look so comfy, and I think it adds a little charm to our outfits. Plus, it’s like wearing a piece of him, right? But I totally get the frustration on their side too!
I love how this post highlights a fun aspect of relationships! It’s great to see guys sharing their thoughts and experiences. Stealing clothes can be annoying, but it also shows affection and a sense of belonging. Plus, who doesn’t love a little wardrobe swap?
I love this discussion! It’s funny how something like stealing clothes can spark so many different opinions. I think it’s all about communication and knowing each other’s boundaries. Plus, some of my favorite outfits have come from my partner’s closet! It’s like a whole new wardrobe. What do you all think?
I find it hilarious and relatable! It’s like a weird compliment when someone wants to borrow your clothes. But I can see how it can be annoying if they don’t return them or if they stretch them out. Communication is key, right?
I loved reading this! It’s interesting to see how differently guys and girls view this whole clothes-stealing situation. I totally get the playful side of it, but I can also see how it might get annoying if it happens all the time. Anyone else have funny stories about it?