6 Life Lessons I’ve Learned From Being A College Dropout

I am a college dropout. This was not the plan that my former schoolteacher parents laid out for me. According to them, all of the smart, successful people go to college, and if you don’t go to college or become a dropout, then you have no chance in the real world.

Here’s the thing: I am an actor. I don’t need a college education or a degree in my field. All of my high school peers have graduated from college, and, as I see what they’re going through post-college, I can only be extremely grateful that I chose the path that I did. No college education could have prepared me for what I have learned on my own, all of which came from real-life experience. Here are some examples of lessons I’ve learned without a college degree.

How to sign with an agent.

College is supposed to prepare you for life, but part of Acting 101 is how to get a freaking agent. No college teaches you how to go about signing with an agent. When I go home, everyone I see is wondering how to get that elusive meeting with an agent.

How to successfully network.

This one applies to any field, so why aren’t there classes on it? I’ll tell you why; because networking is a skill that only experience can teach you. It’s not something that you can learn in a class.

Finances.

If there was a class on how to file your taxes correctly on your own, I would take it in a heartbeat. Seriously, there needs to be a class dedicated entirely to tax write-offs. We need to learn about the evils of banks, how companies want you to stay in debt, and how to successfully handle your money so your earnings multiply.

How to effectively market yourself.

Marketing yourself includes social media skills, what constitutes effective headshots, and how to get your face in front of industry professionals. These are strategies that are essential to professional success, and .

How to get into SAG.

This is a big one. Becoming union is a catch-22. Basically, you need someone to hire you as a non-union actor to be in a union project, but nobody wants to do the paperwork, so they just end up hiring union actors instead. A class on how to get into the union would be a huge boon in the acting industry.

College only teaches you the safety of school.

My high school peers started in preschool and worked their way through school until they ended up in universities. They have spent their entire lives in school, where it’s safe. Maybe, my friends were not always happy or secure in themselves, but they were safe. When the people I knew in school graduated college, they emerged from a dark room to which they’d been confined for 22 years. They were blinking in the bright sunlight; wondering what to do.  My classmates were wondering where to go and how to start. It’s scary!

I decided to skip those extra 4 years and plunge straight into the unknown, with no degree or backup plan.

My entire life has been about acting, but I’ve obtained an invaluable education that I would not have gotten from school. I have a head start and many credits on my resume, including feature films and national tours, while my high school classmates maybe have one or two student film credits. I have my SAG and Actors Equity cards, while they’re still stuck in the catch-22 of trying to get into the union. Since I graduated high school, I’ve consistently had an agent. I have networked and met many, many people, some of whom have written me roles in films.

I will always be four years ahead. I know I may sound arrogant, but I know my worth from having put many years of hard, painstaking work into my field. This is not to say that nobody should go to college; it’s a great experience for many people. It just wasn’t right for me.

People throw so much judgment at me for my decision to drop out of college. They, including my parents, are constantly telling me to get back into college. I’m tired of those lectures on being a dropout. I want people to respect my choices and trust the fact that I know what’s best for me. I’m moving forward on my own path, making my own choices, and dealing with the consequences. But, for now, I’m continuing on my journey and following my gut because it has always led me to the right places, and I know that it won’t fail me now.

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1 COMMENT

  1. Colleges who are “achieving” sudden surges in graduation rates are doing it the same way DC high schools did it— handing out diplomas to students who didn’t earn them. That’s the only way you turn things around on a dime.

    Everyone knows the answer to the question asked in the headline, so it seems like a better question is: what purpose does the SAT serve anymore if its primary function—an indicator of college readiness—is now ignored? And how do we continue to justify flushing so much taxpayer money down the toilet on student loans for people who will inevitably default on them?

    The data is clear and has been available for some time— those who will/won’t pay back their student loans can be predicted with a high degree of accuracy beforehand. Granting admission to students with little to no chance of obtaining a usable degree and then forcing taxpayers to subsidize years of wasted education that ultimately amounts to nothing is unethical and immoral. This “everyone gets a trophy” attitude is destroying higher education in the US and making it unaffordable for the students who would do well but are rightly unwilling to take on a mountain of debt in order to attend. It’s also allowing universities to get away with inflating tuition prices far beyond what the market would otherwise allow, filling an ever-higher percentage of seats with wealthy foreign students.

    The professor in the article from the essaytyper blog mentions the problem of students being clustered at the very high-achieving end and the failing end, but then focuses only on the low-achieving end without ever addressing why the average students are disappearing altogether. We all know the reason why but aren’t supposed to talk about it. Their middling GPAs and SAT scores are being trumped by pitiful GPAs and SAT scores for the sake of “diversity.”

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