Shani Jay
Writer, Designer, Optimist, Dreamer, Thinker & Doer. I'm also a big fan of making clothes, the colour yellow, Taylor Swift, OTH/DC re-runs, and CAKE for breakfast.
Feel free to get in touch with me about anything!
xo
The Truth Behind Why You’re Afraid Of Falling In Love
Here’s what I know:
We're afraid to put ourselves out there and be vulnerable with our hearts. We're scared of getting hurt for the umpteenth...
10 Thoughts You Should Have When He Kisses You
If you’ve ever found yourself kissing your boyfriend/partner/husband and wondering if this is what it’s supposed to feel like, because who knows what it...
21 Things You Absolutely Need To Do In Your 20’s
I turned 26 a few days ago, and of course had the ‘oh my god I’m now closer to 30 than I am 20...
Till Death Do Us Part: Why I’ll Never Get Married More Than Once
I think too many of us are guilty of settling. We undervalue ourselves. We accept far less than we deserve. We look for someone...
10 Inspiring Books By Women That Will Make You Feel Like A Total Boss
Sometimes it feels as though the world has forgotten the magic of reading and learning. I’d like to believe that the intelligent and dignified...
9 Times You Turned To Alcohol To Solve (Or Avoid) Your Problems
I think this should possibly be titled ‘there is nothing that alcohol cannot fix,’ because that’s very close to the truth. Alcohol. It's great,...
14 Stupid A$$ Things You Do When You’re Drunk
Alcohol. Because no good story ever started with a salad, right?
I can’t even begin to list all the stupid things I have done, or...
The 9 Biggest Fashion Mistakes You Have To Stop Making
For a lot of us, looking super put together everyday requires a lot of effort. All those fashion bloggers have us thinking they #wokeuplikethat...
It’s Not Her Fault: Why We Should Be Teaching Guys Not To Rape
We drill it home to girls to remember to be safe when they're out, to not walk home in the dark, to ensure they...
Why Ghosting Is Seriously Getting On My Last Nerve
This is what I think: Everything is too easy today. Socializing, dating, sex. It’s easy to exchange numbers and then do nothing with those digits...
