If you’re anything like me, you’re the type of girl who guys wish existed. You seem to only exist in their wild fantasies. Being with you is like finding big-foot; a one in a million chance. You’re a girl who absolutely loves sex and everything surrounding sexuality. You’re what they call
Big word. But, although you’re the “dream woman”, being one of these girls always comes with it’s downsides. There are a lot of struggles when it comes to being a woman who is keenly aware of her sexuality and proud of it. Here, I’d love to enlighten you with a few misconceptions busted:
People Think You’re A Slut
Most people think that these women are only sluts, who sleep around and barely ever catch feelings. They think we’re more interested in an orgasm than having a true, meaningful relationship with another person. But that’s false. Truth be told, I love relationships. I love falling in love and I absolutely enjoy having a meaningful, deep conversation more than anything. Still, my inhibitions are always out the window once I feel that spark with someone, and my mind immediately travels to the other side – where all I can think about is sex.
You Always “Go There” In Conversations
I have to admit that I’m always thinking about sex. Okay – maybe not always, but most of the time. When I have a conversation with people, my dirty mind gets the best of me and I bring out the X-rated jokes and humor. However, I see nothing wrong with that. Sex is part of everyone’s life and human existence; no need to shy away from it. I mean we were put on this earth to do each other nasty and breed more people, so why are we always so ashamed to talk about it in conversations? The problem is, sometimes you go to the wrong places with the wrong people. You can’t be too comfortable in conversations with conservative folk or those you’ve just met because it may backfire on you, bad.
You’re A try-sexual
You’re not ashamed or embarrassed to admit that you’re a try-sexual: you’ll try anything once. You’re not the type of girl to shy away from the thoughts of trying new toys, positions, or even experiences because you’re highly aware that everything could feel amazing. That means when it comes to the bedroom, all bets are off. You’re down to ride and you’re down to go on an adventure – no matter what it may be. If you don’t like it, it’s not the end of the world, you move on and try something else instead. The only downfall is, people judge the shit out of you and think you’re an animal.
Sometimes People Think You’re A Guy
They say that men are the ones who need to “keep it in their pants,” but when it comes to you, you’d never be wearing any at all. When you’re in a relationship, you’re the one who is constantly trying to throw down in the bedroom. Most of the time, you’d think that any guy would be in heaven. But, it’s not always the case. Sometimes guys will think your consistent sexuality is a lack of emotional substance in your relationship. They’ll think that you’re only using them for sex, and only want to be with them for one thing and one thing only. This is far from true. I’ve been in a relationship for 4 years and I’m not in it just for the sex. I love my boyfriend genuinely – but I also love the sex.
The Porn Epidemic
Most women despise porn (or at least that’s what they want you to believe). If you ask them anything about it, they cringe up, think it’s dirty and can’t ever imagine enjoying it at all. Bullsh*t. Porn is a form of art. It also helps when you’re by yourself and want to treat yo’self, girl. Don’t judge people who do what they love for a living either. Sure, it’s not the most professional job in the world, but it pays their bills. I’m a lover of porn, and a frequent watcher and I have no shame in admitting that. Although most women will judge you for objectifying another woman, you have to let them be entitled to their own opinion and do you – literally and figuratively.
If you’re one of these girls, don’t hide your sexuality. Embrace it, be proud of who you are and what you represent. Just because you’re embracing a part of your existence doesn’t mean you should be respected as anything less than who you are.