Home Adulting Why You Need To Set Realistic Goals For Yourself

Why You Need To Set Realistic Goals For Yourself

Ambition is quite the important factor in life. Everything you do should and does have ambition you create goals, therefore, you the ambition to make them happen.

You probably read this title thinking it is one of those positive reinforcement blogs and you’re right because we all need goals and they are important. Most of you have had goals since you were born; your parents planned out your future before you were even out of the womb and when you came into the world those plans began to grow, shift, and become reality.

Now that you’re older and independent, you’re creating your own goals, to essentially stay sane. Not that you’re crazy but in all honestly life is crazy. Things change all the time and we never know why, when, or how so having goals allows for a sense of control, control over our lives. Yes, life is short but sometimes we have to do things we do not really want to do, sometimes we have to stay at a job we dread because we need money for the next goal. Sometimes we postpone events due to family, school, or work but as long as you know you have goals to reach, you’re all set.

Since being a child I was also told to reach for the stars because they’re not that far away, so I grew up with dreams. It is such an incredible state of mind to be in and a great feeling when you reach a goal you’ve had for such a long time and then life becomes easy, for a little bit at least.

Setting these goals for yourself allows for your mind to grow because, yes, you do have a strict goal but you also have time. You have a finish line but that finish line changes as you get closer to it; it’s distance and location move as your dreams change which allows your goals to change and that is more than okay.

Some people get very discouraged when they don’t hit a certain goal but they don’t realize the power behind that. Not reaching a certain goal allows for more open doors to reach your next goal. Plus who knows, who knows if you were even supposed to reach that goal. Who knows if not reaching that goal allowed you to understand your true goal, your true potential. Who knows if not reaching that goal allowed for you to be at the right place at the right time to understand a different aspect of yourself.

To the people who don’t have goals in life and are living just to live I have a question for you; why? I mean it’s okay, don’t get me wrong, but why? Why not live to create a story. Why not live to brag about your life to someone one day. Why not feel meaningful. It’s such a happier way of living, take my word on it.

Appreciation is one of the worlds greatest gifts.

A note to the people who do have goals I say thank you, and good for you. Thank you for trying to be the best possible you. Thank you for reaching for those stars and realizing that dreams are almost the same as goals. Thank you for giving your life a purpose of which you desire it to be. Good for you because that’s awesome. It’s incredible actually, to live for a reason. It just blows my mind that people can accomplish what they need to. Good for you because you’re creating a better you, a you that one day you’re going to look back on and say “Yes, yes I have grown and yes I am better, yes I love myself then and now, but even more now because I’ve accomplished what I wanted to accomplish”.

To everyone reading, I suggest one thing because it truly does help. Create a vision board. This is a board with either pictures or words posted on it for just you to see. Create what you want on it or around your room, set your goals realistically the first time you set them. Having goals in your head is great but if they get pushed to the back when you are busy, having the ability to wake up every morning and see those goals… it just makes you want more of it, you want those pictures or words to be where you are.

Just remember goals and dreams can be the same thing and they’re easier to accomplish than you think. Just remember one at a time.

Ignite your ambition, ignite your passions, ignite your spark, ignite your dreams and start your reality. If you can dream it, you can achieve it!

Featured image via Nicole Geri on Unsplash

30 COMMENTS

  1. I agree that setting realistic goals is key. Sometimes the biggest challenge is breaking down a large, complex goal into smaller, manageable steps. It’s like understanding how a system works; you need to analyze the different states and how they transition, almost like a sprunki phase in a complex system. Thinking about it that way helps me stay focused and motivated.

  2. I agree that setting realistic goals is important. It’s also good to remember that sometimes not reaching a goal can actually open up new opportunities. It can almost feel like an escape road to something even better.

  3. The article offers a positive and encouraging perspective on realistic goal setting, helping readers realize the value of living purposefully and being flexible in their journey to achieving their goals.

  4. I fully agree; visualizing your goals is paramount. The author is right—whether your ambition is something grounded or something huge, like funding a dream African *safari*, or even adopting a simple *cowboy* lifestyle, having that visual anchor helps. Realistic goal setting is the engine that turns those abstract desires into an achievable reality.

  5. This is a great read! I totally agree that we all need goals, and the point about them helping us ‘stay sane’ in this crazy life really resonated with me. It’s so true how life can feel overwhelming without a clear path forward. Thanks for the positive reinforcement!

  6. This post really hit home! It’s so true how our parents set goals for us even before we were born. I also loved the point about creating our own goals now to ‘stay sane’ because, let’s be honest, life *is* crazy. Great read on why realistic goals matter!

  7. I really liked how this post started by talking about how goals are a part of us from birth, even before we’re independent. The idea that we set goals as adults to “stay sane” because “life is crazy” really resonated with me. It’s a great way to frame the importance of planning and setting realistic expectations!

  8. Great post! I really liked how you highlighted the importance of ambition for setting goals. The point about creating goals to ‘stay sane’ in our crazy lives really resonated with me. It’s so true how having a clear direction helps manage the chaos. Thanks for the reminder!

  9. This is a great start! I really resonated with the idea that we’ve had goals since birth, even if they were set by our parents. And that bit about creating our own goals to ‘stay sane’ because ‘life is crazy’ totally hit home. Looking forward to reading more about setting realistic goals!

  10. I do agree with you that you need to set realistic goals for yourself to have the time to get the results. I saw a lot of people who do not follow the same rules and do not know what to do. So, they get distracted with what they dreamed of.

  11. Constant ambition is often praised, but this post hits on the essential truth that sustainable progress only happens when expectations are actually grounded in reality. I have found that breaking down larger visions into smaller, achievable milestones prevents the burnout that usually comes from chasing perfection. It is a much healthier way to maintain momentum over the long haul.

  12. Setting the bar too high often leads to burnout rather than actual progress, which is a trap I’ve fallen into many times. Learning to break down larger ambitions into smaller, manageable milestones has been a game changer for my productivity. Your post serves as a perfect reminder that consistency usually beats intensity in the long run.

  13. Setting lofty goals often feels like a shortcut to success, but this perspective perfectly highlights why incremental progress is actually more sustainable. I love the emphasis on avoiding burnout by aligning expectations with our current capacity. It is a vital reminder that consistency usually beats intensity in the long run.

  14. This really resonated with me – I’ve definitely struggled in the past with setting goals that were just too ambitious and ended up feeling completely discouraged. It’s so important to break things down into smaller, achievable steps, like focusing on one small habit change at a time. I actually build some tools that help people visualize and track progress towards their goals, if that’s something you’re interested in!

  15. Great post! I really agree that goals give us a sense of control in life’s chaos. It’s so true that our goals can change as we grow, and that’s perfectly okay. Thanks for the encouraging reminder to keep reaching for our own stars.

  16. Great points about setting realistic goals! It’s so true that goals give us direction and a sense of control in life’s chaos. I love the idea that even missed goals can open new doors. This is a helpful reminder to stay flexible and appreciate the journey, not just the finish line.

  17. This post is so relatable! I really liked the idea that we create goals to ‘stay sane’ because life truly is crazy. It’s a great positive reinforcement, highlighting how deeply ingrained ambition and goal-setting are. Thanks for the reminder!

  18. Goal setting is so personality-dependent! Some people thrive with ambitious stretch goals while others need small wins to build momentum. Understanding your type makes the difference between sticking with it and burning out.

  19. Really resonated with your point about how goals can shift and that not reaching a target can open new doors. That flexibility is key, especially in research or creative work where the path often isn’t linear. One thing that has helped me stay on track with my own scientific goals is using a visual tool to map out experiments or data workflows—I’ve found [a BioRender alternative for scientific figures](https://figcanvas.com/alternatives/biorender-alternative) that also lets you generate data charts from code, which really streamlines the process of turning raw findings into publication-ready graphics. It’s a great way to break down a big project into manageable visual steps and keep the momentum going.

  20. I really enjoyed your post on setting realistic goals. I’ve found that sometimes we get so caught up in external benchmarks that we lose touch with the internal compass guiding us. For anyone seeking deeper insight into why they pursue certain goals or feel stuck, [a palm reading for clarity](https://palmreading.pro/) can reveal personality traits and hidden patterns that influence decision-making. It’s a unique way to align your ambitions with your authentic self, complementing the vision board approach you recommended.

  21. You will find life is short scattered throughout Wacky Steps, tempting you to take risky long jumps just to grab a little extra reward before the next checkpoint. Speaking of checkpoints, Wacky Steps places them just far enough apart to keep you nervous, but close enough that you never feel completely hopeless after a silly fall

  22. This post hit home for me! We’re often so quick to set massive targets that we forget to celebrate the small wins along the way. I’ve learned lately that patience is key, whether in life or hobbies. Sometimes I get too ambitious with my creative projects, but I’ve found that sticking to smaller, achievable tasks keeps me happy. If you’re ever looking for a low-stress way to practice focus, I really enjoy spending time on Perler Beads art. It’s a soothing reminder that beautiful things take time to piece together. Thanks for the gentle reminder to be kind to myself about my progress!

LEAVE A REPLY

Please enter your comment!
Please enter your name here

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.