Here’s To Everyone Who Has A “Gypsy Soul”

Most of us spend our childhood and adult years living in the same place we grew up unless we were military or decided to leave our hometown. It’s just natural to most people. It’s our home, and being surrounded by familiar places and people is comforting.

And then there are those of us who enjoy moving as often as every few months. I am one of them. I started using the term “nomad” once I began a job that allowed me to move anywhere in the US every thirteen weeks. However, one of my friends has recently described me as having a “gypsy soul,” and they couldn’t have said it better.

There’s something appealing about the fact that you can move somewhere for as long as you want and then leave if you’re ready for a change. Logistics and finances aside, I thoroughly enjoy being able to “hop states,” as I call it, knowing I’m about to meet new people and redefine my life.

Now, I will admit there are some downsides to this unpredictable lifestyle.

Whether it’s the atmosphere not living up to your expectations, bad friends you made along the way, or something entirely different, this type of life can be challenging. But you can always remind yourself it’s not permanent. The biggest challenge I’ve faced since living the “gypsy life” for nearly two and a half years now is finding a spot where I could see myself ultimately settling down. When all your possessions have been in storage since you left your first apartment or college, it’s tough not to miss your bed or holiday decorations. You only take what you need and lead a minimalistic lifestyle when you’re constantly moving.

On top of that, it can be hard to keep friendships or family ties. 

I had to explain to people multiple times why I do what I do and why I can’t stay in one place too long. It’s just a gut feeling. I miss out on many family events because of that, but I realized it would happen when I decided to leave my hometown. Thank goodness for technology so I can FaceTime or video chat with friends and family to catch up on anything I’ve missed. It helps when you need a reminder of why you do what you do. And although not everyone will understand or support your life choices, there will be people who do and want to hear every little detail about your travels.

I’ve been extremely thankful for this time that allowed me to experience so many places within the country. 

Everywhere has been a new opportunity for growth, making countless memories, and building lasting friendships. No state is the same — most of us can attest to that. But maybe one day, like everyone else in the world, I’ll find a spot that truly feels like “home.”

Do you think you’re someone with a “gypsy soul”? Let us know what you think!

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