Let’s be real: Casual dating can be awesome. While the fantasy of falling madly and deeply in love is wonderful, sometimes it’s nice to just live in the moment and take it as it goes. Not everyone shares the same dream or goal, and we often forget that.
There are three zodiac signs in particular who enjoy chill dates and taking things as they come in relationships. These signs traditionally embrace their free-spirited nature and are unapologetic about it, even if they don’t realize it. They live in the moment and prefer a good time, so they are definitely open for taking things super slow and casual. A serious, long-term relationship is possible, but you should know it’ll take time to happen. They’ll need time to become comfortable with where you two are.
Aries (March 21-April 19)
Aries view a lot of things as an adventure, and they insist on making things fun. This sign is ruled by Mars (a.k.a. the planet associated with passion and aggression), so they will do whatever they want at all costs. If they want you, they’ll get you one way or another — even if that includes an intense romance.
They are similar to Scorpios in terms of their intense passions and drives. However, they usually aren’t seeking a deep connection when they spring into action in pursuing someone. They follow their intuition and allow themselves to travel on a journey wherever it leads them, however long it takes. They are the definition of going with the flow.
Gemini (May 21-June 20)
Geminis are naturally curious about people, which means they might be quite experienced daters. They just genuinely want to get to know people. When they focus on you, they make you feel like you are the only one in the room. They are also naturally fun-loving and enjoy banter, so altogether you’ve got a recipe for an instant crush.
However, their strong interest in getting to know you will be short-lived. They are like a goldfish — they don’t have a long attention span. They get bored easily, so that’s why they can be notorious daters. Geminis also enjoy dating lots of people at a time, which makes it hard for them to settle down with one serious partner. That’s why casual dates are more their style until they find someone they want to gett to know deeper.
Sagittarius (Nov. 22-Dec. 21)
Sagittarius is the free spirit sign. They heavily value their freedom and have huge visions for their future in terms of relationships. It’s as though there’s no box that can confine them. A positive about them is how much they love connecting deeply with people on mental and physical levels. That’s what makes dating them so great — it’s full of passion.
However, they are restless to no end. They always have to get their thrills met with new adventures. They often yearn for something new. They do not like commitment because they hate restrictions. They will keep things as casual as they can for as long as possible before giving up their “freedom.” You must be patient until they are ready to go to the next level, but once you get past it, you will love their passion for life.
If you’re into no-pressure dates, having a spontaneous fling, or just want to take it super slow to protect your heart, these signs are the ones for you to date. Not all relationships are meant to last; you either settle down or you don’t. But these short term connections may be the exact thing you need to show you how to go with the flow. If you aren’t the type who enjoys casual dating, these probably aren’t compatible signs for you. Anyone who wants the “girlfriend/boyfriend” label ASAP should find like-minded people to date.
Ultimately, it’ll be hard to tame any of these zodiac sign lovers.
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