Every girl cooks up questions in her head that she secretly wants to ask her boyfriend. From personal questions related to their past to financial ones, the curiosity is endless. However, you don’t want to come off as the crazy girlfriend so you leave these questions locked up in your head. So, I thought I would take one for the team and put the 6 questions I secretly want to ask my boyfriend in hopes of getting responses from the online world. Hey, this article might even bring up an excuse for you to ask your man directly. If that’s the case, you’re welcome.
QUESTION 1: Did You Ever Talk About Marriage Plans With Your Ex?
Ladies, you can’t deny that this question hasn’t crossed your mind. You want to know that your relationship is the most serious one he has ever had. So you question if he has ever talked about marriage, or kids, or the future with his exes. We all know that the future scares the living shit out of our generation, so if a guy is willing to talk about his future with someone, it’s serious. All girls want to hear a big NO to this question but are deeply afraid of the insecurities that it would cause if he says yes. So the common solution is avoiding the question.
QUESTION 2: Do You Really Love Me?
How many times has he told you that he loves you but for some reason you still find a part of you doubting it and terrified of the possibility of getting hurt. You’re keeping your guard up is something you need to address with yourself ASAP so you can tell him why you are feeling this way. When you feel vulnerable, whether it’s because of your period or seeing that he liked another girl’s picture on Instagram, the doubts start rushing in. As a result, sometimes you are desperate for that extra reassurance.
QUESTION 3: What Will You Do If Your Parents Don’t Like Me?
Meeting the parents is undoubtedly the scariest part of a relationship. The pressure is on and you have no choice but to bring your A game. However, you can’t help but wonder what would happen if his parents don’t like you. Will he fight for you and try to make his parents see what he sees in you or just kick you to the curb and move on? How important is it to get their approval? At the end of the day, all girls just want a guy that will stand by her even in the toughest of situations.
QUESTION 4: Do You Think Any Of Your Exes Are Smarter Or Prettier Than Me?
What a girl can’t bear to hear is that someone especially the guy she loves, admits that he has been with girls that are prettier, smarter, funnier, and more beautiful than her. Obviously, every girl wants to believe that her boyfriend thinks she is the most amazing and perfect girl alive but in reality we know that’s not the case. You just need to accept that he is with you for a reason and that no matter what he thinks of his ex, she is the past and you are the future.
QUESTION 5: What Do Your Friends Honestly Think About Me?
We all know guys talk and act very differently when girls aren’t around. It’s no secret that guys inherently don’t like it when their friends get wifed up because they think they will lose their going out buddy. We all know that guy’s are impacted by their friends thoughts, so you want to sure that they aren’t conspiring to break you guys up or pushing him to cheat on you on a night out. In addition, you want these guys to love you and ultimately become your friends so knowing their true motives and thoughts is NECESSARY.
QUESTION 6: Do You Ever Fantasize About Other Girls When We Are Having Sex?
This is a loaded question and one that you don’t want to know the answer to because either way the answer will surprise or disgust you. Guys have an overactive mind and have watched way too much porn in their lifetime, so is it 100% out of the question that they can fantasize about other girls? No. It’s normal to fantasize about other people but it’s not normal for you to think about someone else (especially if it’s someone you know) while you’re having sex with your significant other. If he ever says yes to this question, dump him right now that is a cheating disaster waiting to happen.
At the end of the day, the questions are endless and jealousy is impossible to avoid. Feel free to ask your secretly desired questions at your own risk, just be ready for the answers you might receive. You just need to be comfortable with fighting the battles you can start by unloading your deepest most inner thoughts to him.
Originally published on Baggout
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