5 Steps You Need To Take To Find Your Dating Confidence

The dating world can sometimes feel overwhelming, frustrating, and confusing. There are so many resources available to meet new people and to find dating advice that it’s difficult to know what will work. However, there’s one thing most resources agree on when it comes to dating, and that’s that self-confidence is fundamental. If you’re not comfortable and confident with yourself, others will be unable to see, and therefore appreciate, who you are as a person. Finding confidence in yourself can definitely be challenging, so we’ve provided a guide for you to discover your confidence by following a few steps.

  1. Envision a better you to work towards

If your self-esteem is low, reflect on what features and traits you have that are deflating your confidence. If there are things you can work on improving, create a plan to get to where you’d like to be. Perhaps you’ll want to try out a new diet or products to help grow your hair back. Improving issues such as extra weight or thinning hair will likely provide a large boost to your confidence as you enter the dating scene. For characteristics of yours that cannot be changed, learn to love them. Chances are, you’re not proud of these characteristics because society has taught you not to be. Reevaluate why you feel this way and consider if it’s something you can learn to appreciate. Having unique features makes you special and – remember – there are plenty of people in the world that admire what you consider to be flawed.

  1.  Be proud of what you do

Having a career, hobbies, and volunteering activities that you’re proud of will not only make you happier and more satisfied with your lifestyle, but it will help with your dating life as well. Being proud of what you do allows you to feel more confident when sharing details of your life with others. If you’re unfortunately stuck in a situation where you’re not entirely proud of the field you’re in, consider the strengths you have at this job and embrace them. Expand your extracurricular activities by finding new hobbies and volunteering experiences that you could enjoy. These will be a great topic of conversation on dates and you might even meet a potential partner through these new interests.

  1.   Practice self-care

Sure, laziness can feel great at the time when it comes to skipping the gym or washing your face, but it makes a difference if these skips add up. In order to build up your confidence, make sure to consistently take care of your body and well-being. Taking steps such as getting regular haircuts and putting aside time to relax each day are sure ways to make you feel better about yourself. Having a set self-care routine will set up your confidence for any situation – especially dating.

  1.   Have a positive mindset

Positive people are often easier to approach and more enjoyable to speak with. If you find yourself often looking on the negative side of things, try to take steps towards altering your mindset. When you feel a negative thought creeping in, figure out ways to replace it with positives from the situation and bring those to the forefront of your mind instead. Changing the way you think about life isn’t easy, of course, but continuing to practice positive thinking will have a drastic change in your confidence. You’ll be able to see this step pay off as others will notice this difference in your personality, as well.

  1.   Get out of your comfort zone

Although this is step might feel daunting, I’m sure you’ll find in time that stepping out of your comfort zone will be the most exciting way to build your confidence. Taking risks and trying new things will help you understand and appreciate more about yourself. If you allow yourself to get stuck in a routine without ever changing things up, you’ll become content with not improving. Facing your fears and overcoming them helps you grow and find new confidence in yourself and your abilities. Begin with something as simple as changing up your daily routine or joining a club to open yourself up to new experiences. Plus, getting out of your comfort zone is a wonderful way to meet new people and to have more to discuss on dates.

Finding the confidence to meet and date new people might seem like an ambitious task, but improving your self-esteem will be so worth the steps it takes to get there. Not only will your dating life improve with this new-found confidence, you’ll also see changes in other aspects of your life, such as work, school, and friends. Start with small changes in your life to build this confidence and continue your journey towards becoming the best version of you.

Featured image via Rocky Barnes

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