Do you ever feel uptight, nervous, or anxious around a particular man you’re attracted to and wish there was a way you could just relax and feel more confident? What if you could walk into a room and completely attract a man’s attention simply in the way you walk, stand, and carry yourself?
When it comes to learning how to attract men, you can actually learn how to get his attention with nothing but your body language. Here are four small changes you can make that will completely change your energy and draw you into any man you meet:
1. Emulate women with great charisma.
You don’t need to have natural charisma or be born with “model” looks to attract the man you want and have a great life. Great charisma and radiant, magnetic energy is something that you can learn. In fact, by emulating other women who light up a room with their radiance and energy, everything will soon come easily to you, too!
2. Learn how to show your beauty.
You can actually have a natural, “organic” transformation through an easy, step-by-step process. It doesn’t have to be or feel fake, although most changes feel awkward at first, and that’s OK. Instead of trying to becoming something you’re not, you simply must learn how to drop your defenses and false beliefs so that your natural feinie power can shine through. In fact, you can improve your confidence and energy by making small changes to, believe it or not, your lips.
3. Be aware of the way your mouth moves.
You may not have noticed this, but when you’re feeling tense or nervous, you press your lips together.
In fact, think about a recent conversation or event that completely threw you off balance and angered you or made you anxious. When you think about that moment, notice how your lips oh-so-slightly press together. They tense up and your mouth looks smaller and tighter.
Now think about something sensual and relaxing. How do your lips feel now? The key is to find ways to keep your lips relaxed and slightly parted. Tension isn’t attractive, trust me.
4. Learn how to tap into your feminine softness.
When you’re feeling stressed, anxious, tense, do something that feels counter-intuitive. Looking more self-confident and relaxed opens you up and sends the signal that you’re open and vulnerable — which is actually an irresistible visual “signal” to a man. Luckily, any woman can learn how to become more attractive and magnetic simply by tapping into her natural inner beauty and feminine energy. Men are drawn to a woman when she’s relaxed, vulnerable, and soft on the outside but strong on the inside.
While there are obviously many ways to attract men, one of the easiest, most natural ways to do so is by using body language. With these four simple changes, you will soon find men flocking to you everywhere you go.
Previously published on YourTango.