This past week marks my one full year of working full-time. To most, this doesn’t seem like anything special, but for me it caused me to reflect on who I was a year ago and how much I’ve grown from the opportunity. Working teaches you a lot of life lessons you didn’t even get the opportunity to learn in school. So here’s what I’ve taken from my first full-time experience thus far:
Going to post-secondary school was a breeze because you could pick and choose which classes you attended and how much effort you put into your homework. With work you gain a new sense of responsibility and realize others are relying on you to get things done. You can’t just choose to skip a day of work because you didn’t feel like going, like you could in college.
You know stereotypes you see on sitcoms on TV all the time? Yeah, they’re real. Just like the pecking order. As the newbie, you realize where you fit into the office hierarchy pretty quickly and learn how to conform to your role. And if you don’t, someone will tell you how to get there.
What Adults Truly Talk About
I don’t know if it’s the fact that I’m the age of most of my co-workers kids, or the fact this is my first big office job, but working with older adults has really opened my eyes. In particular, I’ve learned what mom’s look for in terms with relationships with their kids, or the discomfort of getting a mammogram. Let alone the hilarious jokes they tell! Adult secrets are a whole new world full of never-ending surprises.
The Importance of a Routine
I’ve always been used to having a routine but when you have one throughout your work week it is a life saver! Having an order of tasks to complete throughout your day helps you remember them more and helps the day pass by with ease. Plus your work schedule doesn’t really change so you can easily make plans for once in your life!
How to Let Things Go
I’ve always been someone who stresses about everything and at some random point within the last year everything clicked and suddenly I stopped caring so much. I care about my job, I genuinely do, but I’ve learned not to let the stresses I experience in a day come home with me too. It only ruins your freedom and drags you down.
Being an Adult Is Hard
If you thought you were stressed in school, wait until you get a full-time job and have to adult by yourself. It’s hard working all day long and coming home to a messy house, having to clean, cook dinner and buy groceries, all while trying to do other things for yourself. Let alone if you had kids! By the end of the day you are genuinely exhausted, and you look forward to going to bed at 9 to get a good sleep to have a good day the next. It gave me a new appreciation for what my parents do, that’s for damn sure.
I’ve been so grateful for the opportunities I’ve been given over the past year and I’ve noticed a real change in my “out of work” life because of the things I’ve learned while working full-time. Yes, having a steady income and hours that don’t randomly change is amazing after working part-time for so long. But what’s better is finally realizing you’re growing up and being a responsible adult who feels ready to take on the world.
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