Jamari Shelton
What I Learned From Staying Friends With Someone I Used To Like
There’s this lie we tell ourselves after catching feelings for someone who doesn’t feel the same. It sounds noble and mature to tell ourselves,...
‘Girl’s Girl’: When Female Solidarity Becomes a Weapon
I’ve always considered myself a “girl’s girl.” You know—someone who hypes her friends up before dates, carries extra pads in her purse , and...
The Weight Of Being The Strong One: Why Women Are Tired
I’m exhausted. And I don’t mean the kind of tired that a nap can fix. I’m talking about a bone-deep weariness that no number...
How To Survive ‘Best Friend’ Breakup Season
It Happened. One of my best friends and I had a falling out. I always thought “best friend breakup season” was just a TikTok trend, ...
How Situationships Defy Traditional Dating Standards
Recently, my close friend told me that they’re in a situationship. I had heard of situationships but was curious to understand why they used...
How To Navigate Having A New Crush In Your 20s
I’m just going to say it: Having a crush in your 20s can feel so embarrassing. Like, middle school levels are awkward, but somehow...

















