This list isn’t something you’d expect. You’re not going to find different sex positions to try, or what clothes to wear to make her want to take them off. But if you’re looking for ways to spice up your sex life with your SO you have come to the right place. I promise the list will show you how to get down and dirty.
1. Do extra chores.
If you’re home alone and you notice the dishes need to be done, or clothes need to be washed, do them! She will be able to relax when she gets home and make the place dirty again with you.
2. Flirt with her throughout the day.
Make her feel wanted the entire day, not just when the two of you are together in bed. Shoot her a text and let her know you’re thinking about her. Hold her hand and kiss her throughout the day. Don’t only do these things when you have sexual urges.
3. Show you care about her.
Yes, of course, flowers are nice. But, bringing her a coffee at work is awesome too. She will be able to brag to her coworkers, and she’ll come home in a good mood! Hint: Do this once in awhile so she appreciates it more.
4. Be romantic.
If this isn’t in your personality, that is fine. You don’t need to be romantic every single day. But bringing her chocolates, or roses is always a nice gesture. If you are low on cash, write her a love note. If she finds the letter corny, don’t worry, she will appreciate the thought.
5. Don’t skip foreplay.
It can take kissing, touching, and grabbing to make her want to have sex. You need to put her in the mood. Honestly, the key to this is having a hot make-out session. She will be ready in no time.
Let’s face it, life comes with a lot of stress so it can be hard to get into the mood. If you have been struggling with keeping up your sex life, try the things on this list. It may not work for everyone, but I bet it will work for you!
Let me know your mood-building secret in the comments below.