We all know the saying — small penises don’t feel as good. What’s more, most women won’t sleep with a man who, for the lack of a better word, isn’t ‘packing.’ However, regardless of what the popular opinion says, the truth about sex with someone who doesn’t have a big penis is so much different than we may think.
Personally, I’ve had my fair share of experiences with smaller penises. Some have been good, some have been bad. But the thing is that it happens with every person regardless of their penis size. But for some women and men, it really does matter what’s going on under the clothes. And this brings up a big debate…
Are men with smaller penises worse in bed? To get an answer, I spoke to 15 women and asked them their opinions on the matter.
Men on the smaller side of the spectrum typically are better at foreplay.
“I was with a man who was small, but he could eat me out better than anyone else. He also knew all the best and creative foreplay techniques. Sex with him was so much fun!” ~ Natasha, 24
“I actually prefer the act of foreplay over banging because so much more of your body is simulated. And I learned that by sleeping with men who had smaller dicks. I’m not kidding, they all knew how to please a woman. Whether it was incorporating sex toys or using their mouths, they all knew exactly what they were doing. The sex was fantastic.” ~ Julia, 27
“I was with a man who didn’t acknowledge that he was small, but we both kind of knew it. He was the best at dirty talk, ate my pussy like it was a buffet, focused on my needs first, and was very kinky and down to try anything. It was the best sex of my life!” ~ Britney, 25
Sadly, not all men with small penises are the most confident in having sex.
“I used to hook up with someone fairly frequently and his dick was maybe the size of my index finger. All he ever wanted was blow jobs and never wanted to have sex. I think it’s because he was scared of failing to please me.” ~ Nadia, 20
“You can tell when a guy has a smaller dick, and he’s not confident. Most men make up for lacking in size with enthusiasm and willingness to please. Others shy away from sex altogether. And that’s when it gets disappointing.” ~ Margaret, 30
“If he doesn’t eat pussy and has a small dick, the sex will go downhill. Women want to be pleased too.” ~ Anabelle, 28
Men with small penises also have more of a romantic side than other men.
“Even though he was small, he still gave me some of the best sex I’ve ever had. He genuinely loved me and cared about how I felt. He always called me beautiful and made our sexual experiences more intimate than anyone else did.” ~ Maria, 27
“I don’t know if it was the embarrassment about his size that detoured him from caring as much about sex, but we had a very strong romantic connection first that almost made his size not matter.” ~ Jessica, 25
And no, ladies, you aren’t alone if you don’t always feel it… Because we’ve all been there.
“When I placed my hand down this guy’s pants, I learned that my hand was bigger than his fully erect dick. Needless to say, I was mortified. It felt so pitiful giving a hand job with just two fingers.” ~ Shawna, 24
“I was riding him and I actually asked him, ‘Are you in’?” ~ Brittainy, 27
“If I don’t feel him, I don’t count him as one of my kills.” ~ Hailee, 26
However, there are some silver linings about having sex with a man who has a smaller penis.
“It’s easier to have anal sex because it doesn’t really hurt.” ~ Katie, 25
“Blow jobs are so much easier, and they’ll always think you’re a goddess when you barely have to do the work.” ~ Alycia, 29
“Sometimes the way the curve can hit your G-spot in reverse cowgirl feels just so right. The best orgasms I’ve ever had — even ones where I squirted — were with smaller than average men.” ~ Tammy, 30
“You’ll never have deep penetration that kills you for three days!” ~ Kira, 23
In my experience, I found that some men with smaller penises are either really passionate about having stimulating sex, or they completely shy away from it. Nevertheless, every woman I spoke with brought up valid points. At the end of the day, it depends on your connection with the person, how they are sexually, and if they can satisfy your needs.
And if you’re looking for new positions to give you more pleasure, lay down on your stomach with your legs straight behind you, or closed if you’re on top. Let him do the work, and it’ll be a lot better for you!
All in all, size doesn’t matter — It’s the man that does.
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Ok, all of those women speak like whores and should be ashamed of themselves.
You should be ashamed for having no respect for women. You are misogynist. Let them talk, you are just offended bc you have a small penis -_-
Anon you are abusively forcing other people into your humiliation kink. You are not much better than most sexual harassers or misogynists. Hatred of small dicks is a misogynistic instinct by the way.
The women in here are players, I wouldn’t call them whores, or I would but only if I also called abusive fuckboys whores, and that’s what I meant by “whore”.
Yes, these alleged women are abusive fuckboys who are only good for one night stands at the most, I can see where bobby was coming from.
No respect for whores you cunt! My personal opinion is that most women are sluts, not all but most. Especially the younger college kids.
There’s one thing I have to say and that’s women are pretty fuckin evil. God forbid we say something about there body! How about your tits aren’t the same size. How about your fupa down there. What about your dimply ass what about the fact y’all are all wanting to f in the butty all the time. What if you have mass meat curtains or a massive mini penis as a clitoris.? Or how about the nasty cottage cheese fat y’all get on your inner thighs or maybe your massive saddle bags? You women are worried about a man that has a below size penis. The average penis is just over 5 inches, so I’m assuming for yall that comment on this format that small also. It seems to me that women are shallow and it’s
ok for them to call out men’s deficiencies but God forbid we bring up one of the facts about most women and for all of y’all who they it’s attractive to have an ass the size of blizo. Just ask her to take her clothes off so you can see what that shit looks like without clothes. F off to all you shallow hoes out there with no moral guidance or values! Stop looking at your self I the phone and do something constructive like go to fuckin work!
I was so surprised with my small Penis, because I satisfy some ladies and they thanks me through how we have form together with my performance on bed and I was so surprised the other side, I meet a lady we have form together but during the time having sex she was crying later she called me why did I have small Penis and I know how to handle a ladies like me…. But am not happy when they’re praising me because I was ashamed with my small Penis even tired the enlargement drugs still yet nothing came out
I really want to share my story.
Almost all of my men have had small penis (yes, I’m lucky) and I genuinely love them and don’t see this as a problem.
Firstly, they are really sensual and very attentive to my pleasure, my biggest orgasms have been with men with small penises. Secondly, I love sex toys and experiments, and a small penis is a great opportunity to experiment and discover new facets of myself. I wish all men with a small size to stop completing and start enjoying sex.
What do you consider a small penis? I asked one girl, years ago, what she thought was the average size of an erect penis: “eight inches” she said…I felt so dejected about that for a long until i found out she was a virgin who worked at a horse farm.
The length of their penis is something many men are concerned about. With a small penis, you can experience arousal like any other man. Men with a small penis get an erection and a normal orgasm. Usually they can also masturbate, although sometimes it is more difficult. Is your penis a little too small? You could use some sex toys to spice things up. You can use cockrings for an extra hard erection or a penissleeve for a thicker cock with ribbing. Experimenting with ribbed condoms can also be fun!
It’s astonishing how men are being reduced to the size of a body part. If similarly someone writes about boobs or vaginal lips size, the person would get crucified. It’s 2023 and with all the gender equality accomplishments, men are still being judged by their penis size? It’s insane.
It’s just the truth man idk what to tell ya. A small dick isn’t pleasing to some women. You can barely feel it’s there probably
You ever stop to think that maybe your vagina is just too damn big?
Yes double standards are great when it favours them…Look how slutty women became when they couldn’t be shamed about it anymore; degeneracy should be called out whenever it rears its ugly head so we can keep safeguards in place…Years ago only “dirty girls” would ever think a out taking a penis in their mouth…Now you have 12 and 13 year old girls having lipstick parties…DEGENERACY people!!
I have a very small penis and I can attest to women asking if it was in. A woman can move on to the next man, after that. I’m still got the same problem. Lol I don’t think a woman ever really felt me inside them. I would slip out a lot too.
The most frustrating thing was my head would be the only part really in, making it super sensitive and make me climax within a minute, which most women were probably thankful of.
Sex with women was just too awkward to me and uneventful for them. It was a nightmare that grew on me. I love women, but gave up on the idea of relationships with them.
I finally resorted to sex with men. It was difficult to even to get into it. Over the years, I grew to like it and then love it. I enjoy sexually satisfying men now and I’m damn good at it. The urge for women faded and never have to worry about encountering that nightmare again. The brutal truth of having a small penis.
It’s just the truth man idk what to tell ya. A small dick isn’t pleasing to some women. You can barely feel it’s there probably
I have a very small penis (almost 3″ fully erect.) Women always complain that they can’t feel me inside them. Also, my penis tends to slip out…a lot. It seems to bother most of them to give a two fingers hand job. Below average is one thing, but being tiny, in just but built fur sex.
Are you the same Ryan that worked with us ladies on the 7th floor?
We know your little secret, see story further down.
They’re all fuckin whores!!!!!!!!
Yet another article about penis size where actual size isn’t mentioned a single time. Then you move into the comments where the girls are in full agreement over not liking small dicks and the dudes are asking “then why do you say size doesn’t matter?” while in the same breath calling all women whores. My guess is they say that in order to keep from being physically or sexually assaulted by the type of f-boys who use blanket statements like “All women are whores.” That wouid include your mothers, right? Must be why it’s posted anonymously. But seriously, I know there’s no one size fits all, but how big is too small? Also can we not use small, micro, & average size interchangeably because that’s some confusing shit & it happens frequently. Lastly if you’ve had fewer than 5 sexual partners do everyone a favor by not commenting at all unless of course you have actual questions and are able to handle the actual answers!
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I would exchange my whole life for one month with a good size penis.
I am 45 and i knew since i was 9 that i will never have sex and i will live alone and die alone.
I never had even a kiss and a hug and the most intense thing in my life was when a nice girl hold my arm once.
At my 28 , i had the most unexpected experience of my life . An old lady from the internet felt so bad about me that she agreed to visit me and give me this experience.
That was a really dark part as there was nothing erotical, she was quite pretty for her age but also i found out the hard way that i cannot use any condom because of my size.
As i knew that there will never be any other chance we tried sex condomless only to find out that this small length is practically incompatible with penetration. The first 3 to 5 cms of the vagina is the external part of woman organs so a 7 to 10 cm penis cannot go in .
Doctors didnt want to hear anything about this kind of problem and i dont blame them as there is nothing that they can do .
I lost the ability of erection at 28 as there was so much emotional suffer . I also was always feel exposed infront of a lot of people when its the office at work or when i have to make a presentation . I have numerous health issues and i guess that sooner or later i will die and people will find out from the smell after many weeks but i am ok with this .
It was never my fault…..
Cheer up Man!! Masturbating is better anyway; you don’t have to worry about genital warts or getting cuckholded and you’re imagination don’t have to deal with their respective flaws.
oh boy i hope this is a troll post.. maybe find a girl who is smaller.. or maybe you can just learn to use sex toys.. relationships are not just about sex.. they’re about connection.. you can work on this with just even having friendships..
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This has given me more confidence about my size. I am 4 inches. My whole life until now I was very depressed and distant from people because of my dick size.
My penis size has done a number on me. To the point that i have intenionally not asked or dated women for over 24 years…jerk off everyday fantasizing about certain women, but thats it. Fantasy. Why would i want to try and embarass myself? Just a loser
My penis is smaller than a coke can and I used to fuck everywhere . I’m a bigger douche than Peter. Married women galore ouch menatrois with them their idea not mine. When I clocked into work my breaks were getting head and pussy sometimes not on breaks. Some women have given me the eye of shame and sucks but you say fuck it confidence is key ohhj small dick well she’s getting me off tonight and she’s not gonna get the oral sex blah blah is the only answer. Hit it anal use your aggression on tapping it they love it. Shit I had woman knock on door laye at night didn’t even speak she went straight to my bed. Put yourselves out there. I haven’t had sex in 5yrs but that for my reflection on the asshole I was with woman in relationships, it was great hearing g most of the boyfriends or husband’s were bigger than me ha ha ha. Peter I might come out of retirement for your wife or girl. Bottom line quit giving a shit about your size or act the part, big world out there I here Asia’s nice this time of yr. Good Luck.
Mine’s bigger than a 20oz soda. Men with smaller and average to off every morning to their smaller and average jobs while their women and girls howl moan and scream from atop my superior genital. They all tell each other about my mayor mcHuge, so it’s a constant pussy stain from six am to nine pm all day every day.
If we would all just get out of the idea of performance sex…”..oh she made me cum …now I have to make her cum…”…no, no, no..how about mutual satisfaction where we both have the freedom to enjoy each other till each is satisfied….DUH!!!!!!!
lol the denial in here is palpable. Sorry lads but ladies don’t like a tiny dick they just don’t say it sometimes because they don’t want you to be someone who kills themselves cos a girl laughed at it.
I do agree that men with small penis have romantic sense and they will present it in all possible ways.The only thing matters is being confident
Girls do talk and when it comes to size usually we’ll hear if it is big or small.
Meaning no offense I did have a little giggle because whenever one of my girl friends say he was wonderful, skilled… going downtown we have a little laugh and indicate a small penis.
Yes we agree with the above, for myself well the hub is of modest size but has traits of a fork tongue goanna and can breathe through his ears.
I’m 57 and have been with hundreds of women from my high school days. Then after my first marriage I hooked up a lot and got with my second wife at 24. She started dancing at a gentleman’s club and did that for ten years. During this time I got with more rules than I could even think of weed party and invite her friends over every day night after work and we would hang out and I have a tiny cock, but nobody’s ever complained and I like small penis, humiliation, and after so much time I started bringing that up to my wife and then her friends And with a little persuading I got my wife to be with be cool with with it and it’s like I know you love me and you’re doing it because I asked you to do it not because you have any complaints and like these other women said you know what I know for me anyway that’s true cause I’d go down there and just my job is to satisfying them whether was with my dick or my tongue and I’ve never had anybody complain I had one one experience I can’t say never and these strippers came over to our house getting naked eating each other‘s pussies my wife eat their pussies and I mean their pussies and fucking around and then they go in there to get a shower but One stayed out and I hate her Pussy a few times she came And she went down went to go down on me and take my clothes off and she didn’t so I had a Little Dick in. She did get up and go in the room which I wasn’t offended or anything because I used to like my wife making me get naked in front of her new friends and have them all make little jokes and laugh about it And soon you know we had different interest in winter our separate ways we’re still friends with this day, but 34 I moved to Pennsylvania started on the Internet a lot one night stands cause that’s all I wanted. I was raising my daughters and I had a one night. I’d have a one night stand meet different girls almost every single Night Some of them I would hook up with more than once others I would just that was it never no complaint Stone a lot of them would call me I wouldn’t even have to call them back. They would be calling me to see if I wanted to get together so if you have a small penis, just be confident about it that you can do to change it, Happy within yourself I started letting my wife And her friends put panties on me and before you knew it I’m 5 foot 25 foot three and probably 120 at the time and after the panties before you know that they were dressing up in their stripper clothes put a makeup on. I had the best 10 years when I was with her we have so much sex and we go out on the boat at two in the morning when they get out of the club and I know 678 girls on there all naked doing Lines off of their pussies and go back home and we all fuck around or they dress me up and play around like that but it was always good times so just be happy with yourself be happy who you are and make the most of it be confident about yourself that’s what works. Take care of yourself. That’s what works then I met my third wife and the first time we hooked up was actually our first date I hate the hell out of her Pussy and stuff and I would always tell her man. I love you little small Pussy and one day she kind of said that about my dick and I didn’t mind And after being together getting high with her I probably told her like within like six months that I liked small penis, humiliation, and it took a long time to talk her into doing it, but she did and we’d watch videos on the Internet and we both masturbate together at night while we were high And then I just after that that must’ve been in 2005 we were together until 2016 when she died, but when she did, I started going back on the Internet and I just started telling you know I like to let everybody know I had a small dick And I love walking around naked and having women in my house naked and if I could get them to make some jokes about it. It’s cool sometimes it takes a while, but I always am able to get them to do it. I just never no hard feelings. I don’t like mean stuff But true on stuff like that’s the smallest dick I’ve ever seen or look at that tiny little thing it’s so cute just playful nice things not mean I’ve been one night stand with. I probably have a good 20 girls. I have come over periodically groups of them and you know they’ll get me naked in All you know I’ll play around. We like to have small cock parties or a bunch of friends will combine just make a little jokes about my Tiny gear and dress me up, but it’s fun be you and enjoy you because that’s all that matters when you start getting older. I wish I would’ve started well. I did start I guess at a young 24 I mean, I knew I had a small dick from as long as I could think especially when you get in the middle school and you share in the bathroom even if you just see somebody else when you kid you know, you walk in the bathroom on someone and you see how big everybody’s cock is, but I hook up with more girls in high school then anybody because everybody always thought I was cute I always took care of my myself and I think from the time I started getting here I have a shave of my little dick to make it look bigger. I don’t know if it worked, but it definitely helped From getting here in the girl’s mouth if she’s my cock and I love the Pussy I still do to this day. I could eat a pussy for hours and hours and not get tired of doing it so all of you little dicks out there don’t think that there ain’t no possibility just be you be proud. Be thankful for what you have once you accept it. It’s easy for everybody else to accept it because you’re never gonna meet anybody that’s gonna complain about it I’ve been with hundreds of women in. I had that one experience and it wasn’t even a bad experience because the rest of them girls came out and my wife and we all fucked around and it was a good night so have faith and hang in there. I do live my life as I was born a man, but I do like to play around in cross-dress since the girls at the gentleman’s club used to enjoy playing around and doing that. Tell her I’m using my aka…
Know any females with a genuine interest in eliminating micro pps from society by passing laws that if your less than 4 inches vagina is illegal and once your women Dr nerves you if you don’t measure up they force you to replace all your men’s underwear for bra and pantiesets before discharging you from the hospital and they put a identifieron your I’d so no store will ever sell you men’s underwearagain?
Hi there I’m Keith and I have a really small dick 2
Inches long
I love how every single anecdote is in past tense
Well having a micropenis myself I was hoping that this would not be the case (that women talk about size etc). Micropenis is a medically diagnosed condition and really shouldn’t be the subject of ridicule.
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Okay, so there was this younger man that worked with me and a team full of ladies.
But after a while it became obvious that he fancied me and all the girls were asking what I was going to do about it. I’m married so i said he needs a date and they decided to set up a dating profile for him.
I changed the profile because they made him sound like a complete loser. So one girl in the team told her friends about it. One of her friends was on that site and then sent him a message cos he’d had no matches after a week so it was a bit boring.
Anyway next week he comes into work with a nice jacket on and I was asking him are you going anywhere nice and he wasn’t telling.
So we text the girl and told her find out all the details about him, we want to know everything.
And Laura always goes to far so she said we really want to know everything… lmao.
Anyway this girl goes on the date, actually calls Laura during the date and then Laura’s updating us all in DMs. So anyway she agrees to go on another date with him on the Saturday night. We were all rofl.
So she takes it too far, gets him drunk and takes him home with her, but none of us know this except Laura til we were in work on the Monday morning.
Anyway she had sent Laura some messages. Laura waits until Monday and when Ryan has to leave the room she forwards a message on to all of us in our ladies group chat that he’s not in.
So anyway are phones all buzz at the same time and Laura has a massive grin on her face, then says to us tell me when your done.
We are all reading and the message basically says what a fucking loser why did you you set me up with him. When we got back to my place drunk we got naked and he told me he was a virgin. When I laughed he shot his load. No touching.
We were all in hysterics then Laura says, are you all done, then sends us more messages. 2 pictures one of him tied to the bed full body and face totally naked. Second one Laura’s friend with her little finger beside his little man, same size OMFG!!! So shamed, lmfao.
Omg I was pmsl, I mean seriously, and it was hard in both pics. She said it was the smallest she’d ever seen. It was really skinny and a bit crooked. Oh and the head was skinny to, no mushroom head. So she said obviously she didn’t sleep with him so he’s still a virgin.
She said he kept staring at her boots and wanted to be tied up. So she did and then took the pics. He begged her to delete them and not tell anybody so she eventually convinced him that she wouldn’t. She deleted the pics in front of him but had already saved them to the cloud.
And she didn’t tell, she sent us them instead, lmao.
Well all day in the office we were sending each other messages and making comments in front of him, he didn’t know what was going on. Didnt know the girl was friends with Laura.
Thank god I’m not dating any more if that’s what’s out there. The others were trying to go early and then get me to tell him while they waited outside the door, but I didn’t.
Having a micropenis I find it unsettling that women still see penis size being of importance.
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I know i have, I very small penis, smaller than micro if you can get smaller.. is what is.. is normal this. Im not shy.. iv had a dream to have a big penis, at least 1inch id be happy. At moment it is 1.9 centimeters full.. hard to hold. Ues im that tiny.. im 47 years old now.. and im smaller than an ant, literally. Im Happy. I am.