We all know the saying — small penises don’t feel as good. What’s more, most women won’t sleep with a man who, for the lack of a better word, isn’t ‘packing.’ However, regardless of what the popular opinion says, the truth about sex with someone who doesn’t have a big penis is so much different than we may think.
Personally, I’ve had my fair share of experiences with smaller penises. Some have been good, some have been bad. But the thing is that it happens with every person regardless of their penis size. But for some women and men, it really does matter what’s going on under the clothes. And this brings up a big debate…
Are men with smaller penises worse in bed? To get an answer, I spoke to 15 women and asked them their opinions on the matter.
Men on the smaller side of the spectrum typically are better at foreplay.
“I was with a man who was small, but he could eat me out better than anyone else. He also knew all the best and creative foreplay techniques. Sex with him was so much fun!” ~ Natasha, 24
“I actually prefer the act of foreplay over banging because so much more of your body is simulated. And I learned that by sleeping with men who had smaller dicks. I’m not kidding, they all knew how to please a woman. Whether it was incorporating sex toys or using their mouths, they all knew exactly what they were doing. The sex was fantastic.” ~ Julia, 27
“I was with a man who didn’t acknowledge that he was small, but we both kind of knew it. He was the best at dirty talk, ate my pussy like it was a buffet, focused on my needs first, and was very kinky and down to try anything. It was the best sex of my life!” ~ Britney, 25
Sadly, not all men with small penises are the most confident in having sex.
“I used to hook up with someone fairly frequently and his dick was maybe the size of my index finger. All he ever wanted was blow jobs and never wanted to have sex. I think it’s because he was scared of failing to please me.” ~ Nadia, 20
“You can tell when a guy has a smaller dick, and he’s not confident. Most men make up for lacking in size with enthusiasm and willingness to please. Others shy away from sex altogether. And that’s when it gets disappointing.” ~ Margaret, 30
“If he doesn’t eat pussy and has a small dick, the sex will go downhill. Women want to be pleased too.” ~ Anabelle, 28
Men with small penises also have more of a romantic side than other men.
“Even though he was small, he still gave me some of the best sex I’ve ever had. He genuinely loved me and cared about how I felt. He always called me beautiful and made our sexual experiences more intimate than anyone else did.” ~ Maria, 27
“I don’t know if it was the embarrassment about his size that detoured him from caring as much about sex, but we had a very strong romantic connection first that almost made his size not matter.” ~ Jessica, 25
And no, ladies, you aren’t alone if you don’t always feel it… Because we’ve all been there.
“When I placed my hand down this guy’s pants, I learned that my hand was bigger than his fully erect dick. Needless to say, I was mortified. It felt so pitiful giving a hand job with just two fingers.” ~ Shawna, 24
“I was riding him and I actually asked him, ‘Are you in’?” ~ Brittainy, 27
“If I don’t feel him, I don’t count him as one of my kills.” ~ Hailee, 26
However, there are some silver linings about having sex with a man who has a smaller penis.
“It’s easier to have anal sex because it doesn’t really hurt.” ~ Katie, 25
“Blow jobs are so much easier, and they’ll always think you’re a goddess when you barely have to do the work.” ~ Alycia, 29
“Sometimes the way the curve can hit your G-spot in reverse cowgirl feels just so right. The best orgasms I’ve ever had — even ones where I squirted — were with smaller than average men.” ~ Tammy, 30
“You’ll never have deep penetration that kills you for three days!” ~ Kira, 23
In my experience, I found that some men with smaller penises are either really passionate about having stimulating sex, or they completely shy away from it. Nevertheless, every woman I spoke with brought up valid points. At the end of the day, it depends on your connection with the person, how they are sexually, and if they can satisfy your needs.
And if you’re looking for new positions to give you more pleasure, lay down on your stomach with your legs straight behind you, or closed if you’re on top. Let him do the work, and it’ll be a lot better for you!
All in all, size doesn’t matter — It’s the man that does.