Relationships can be wonderful when you’re connected to your partner. However, not all of them last. So what separates the relationships that are able to weather tough storms from those that eventually end? Here are 15 characteristics of unbreakable relationships:
1. Appreciation
Every human being needs to feel like their partner sees, hears, and appreciates them always — not just when all is well. If you can appreciate your partner even when they fall short, you’ll strengthen your relationship.
2. Friendship
The most beautiful gift on this journey is a partner who just “gets you” like a best friend would. They never lose sight of your greatness, especially in those moments when you may overlook it.
3. Communication
If you can vulnerably speak your truth with compassion, honesty, and grace and hear your partner out, — you should be able to resolve any conflict. When you have good communication, where there’s a will, there’s a way.
4. Devotion
Your connection to your partner starts with a commitment to do whatever it takes to keep your relationship fresh and constantly evolving, no matter what may come your way.
5. Encouragement
Whether you and your partner are celebrating your respective victories or you just need a reminder that your partner believes in you, a timely positive affirmation goes a long way in your relationship.
6. Forgiveness
In any relationship, you will need to address the occasional disagreement and forgive each other for your mistakes. Forgiveness builds unbreakable relationships.
7. Gratitude
Gratitude can be a game-changer in your relationship. When you focus on why you’re thankful for your partner, they’ll send positive vibes your way in return.
8. Intimacy
Intimacy isn’t just about the physical aspects of a relationship. When you get to know each other deeply or truly hear each other, you’ll deepen your connection.
9. Kindness
You may have disagreements with your partner, but when you foster a relationship on kindness, you’re more likely to resolve your conflicts.
10. Laughter
It may seem like an oversimplification but partners that laugh together stay together. Taking time to laugh with your partner can help you cope when serious issues come your way.
11. Adventure
Together, you and your partner will share many wonderful adventures on your journey. Treasure every memory, from simple, random moments of bliss to major life milestones.
12. Nurturing
Performing small daily acts of service to nurture your partner will keep your love alive for a lifetime. Know what your partner values most, and focus on providing what they need when they’re struggling most.
13. Passion
Life is too short not to express your feelings to your partner. The strongest couples show their passion for each other in every way they can.
14. Time
Good intentions alone often aren’t enough to forge a successful relationship – you need to make time for your partner. Schedule a bit of time each day to connect with your partner.
15. Love
Of course, the true foundation of every relationship remains the same: reciprocal love. If your partner truly loves you, they’d do nearly anything for you, and you should do the same for them.
Whether you’re dreaming of the perfect relationship or want to actively work with your current partner to forge a lasting love, make sure that you find someone who exemplifies these 15 characteristics. If you’re willing to work on reciprocating communication, time, and love in your relationship, you’ll create unbreakable relationships that stand the test of time.
Originally Published on YourTango
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