So, let’s say you’re out on a Friday night after a long week of classes, you’re feeling yourself at the bar and notice a guy giving you maaad eye game. You entertain his attention and eventually make contact with this guy in passing. You’re into him so you allow him to buy you a drink and have already decided you’re going to go home with this guy (girls, I know you usually know before the night starts how it will end). You don’t want to be a guy’s “slam-piece” for the night so what are you going to do to make sure your worth is known? From a guy’s perspective, when we meet a girl and find her attractive, you can be sure one of two things is going to happen:
1) Us guys will try to spit as much game to take her home for the night, or 2) We want to make her Bae (but still probably take her home…)
Here are 9 things that make a girl worth more than just a one night stand:
1. If she comes over and shows some respect for my place (by saying “it’s nice” or that she likes it, even if it isn’t nice at all), that shows she has manners. Already a good sign!
2. If throughout the night we both can vibe with each other, especially by making me laugh, then she is definitely someone I will want to keep in contact with.
3. If she wakes up ready for round two, that’s always a huge bonus. 😉
4. Leaving the next morning without even offering to make the bed assures that she will definitely not be welcomed back. Just offer to help clean up the mess that YOU helped make. It’s just considerate.
5. If we wake up and completely laugh at how ridiculous we were the night before then that’s also a good sign. If a girl is quiet and awkward then it’s more than likely she won’t get a second invite.
6. If on the off chance she has to be up early to get somewhere and leaves without harshly waking me up then she is the real MVP. Sometimes it’s the little things.
7. If we are at her place and she wakes me up the next morning with breakfast then I will want to wife that girl.
8. If she actually leaves me with her phone number then maybe I’ll be able to call her up and ask her out again. Think, ladies.
9. FINALLY, if she is down to meet up again for lunch or a drink then she is cool in the books. Guys are always down for a girl that can eat or drink with as friends, friends with benefits or with our newly discovered bae.
Being a rational guy, I understand that all of these or even most of these won’t happen during a one night stand, but I think I speak for most when I say that we’re usually down for a good time and wouldn’t deny the possibility of making a girl bae (even after a one night stand). Ladies, don’t be afraid to be yourself during the night. Who knows, you might have met your potential bae.